Everyone has gone through a stage in their married lives, where things just feel flat. It feels like that spark has gone missing and you’re just not sure how to fix it.
Honestly, there are plenty of reasons you might be feeling this way. But what if all of the obvious ones are actually okay? Maybe you and your husband are happy, and in sync. Maybe you communicate well, love each other and respect each other. Maybe you even go on date nights.
What could possibly help in this case?
Well, I’ve been there. I’ve felt the loss of spark and it’s been agony. Today, I’m going to share with you what I tried. It might not work for you, but it absolutely worked for me, so I think it is definitely worth a try!
I started dressing up.
I still wear sweatpants around the house, and a t-shirt I haven’t changed in a day or two. I still have days where I don’t put my make-up on (because I’m busy!). I’m still human, and I don’t dress up all the time.
But every now and then, I take an extra long shower and I slip on something silky. Lingerie and a robe, a satin corset, matching bra and panties. I fluff my hair and dim the lights. Sometimes, I wear something sexy beneath my clothes when we’re going out.
I let my husband know. I show him just enough and it drives him crazy!
A little bit of novelty and a couple of pieces of lingerie have worked wonders in my marriage. Because we love each other. We work well together. And sometimes, it feels good to wear something empowering and naughty, and make him stare.
Sometimes, all you need is a little bit of lace!